And that’s why I do it.
I’m a procrastinator extraordinaire, and I often feel like I have to get everything done on my to-do list before I can sit down to write. (Otherwise, my mind will be distracted by the other things I have to do.) Now, I am not a competitive person by nature. I didn’t like team sports when I was a kid: I preferred ballet and piano lessons. But when it comes to writing and brain sports, well, that’s a different story.
The drive to “win” NaNoWriMo–writing 50,000 words in November–is strong for me. That’s my idea of competition. However, the last time I attempted it, I petered out about six days in. I just could not find a way to write that many words every. single. day.
I learned a few lessons that I applied to this attempt, and so far so good. Here they are:
1. For this month, prioritize your writing.
- The laundry goes for a couple extra days.
- The hubby is put on dishwashing duty.
- I make crock pot meals.
- I say “no” a lot when it comes to after-work things.
2. For the love of all that is holy in writing-land, have an outline.
- But I’m a pantser, you say? No problem.
- It doesn’t have to be a formal, rigid, locked-in outline your high school English teacher made you write.
- Let it be fluid so that as your ideas come to you, you can follow them instead of an in-stone outline.
- Just have your basic plot points. From there, jot down some of the scenes you’ll need. This has been my biggest help: knowing where I’m going next without having to think about it.
3. Join your regional NaNoWriMo group.
- Mine has physical meet-ups to write as well as virtual ones.
- Being with other people chasing the same dreams is AMAZING for your motivation and inspiration.
- Seeing others struggle with the same writerly things you are helps you to know you are not alone.
4. It’s not going to perfect.
- It’s a rough draft. Get your story out first. Then polish.
- Resist the urge to edit too much. (I’m an English teacher. Trust me, I know how difficult that can be!) Your goal here is to get the story, your ideas, out of your head and into some semblance of a form.
5. Don’t be afraid to fail.
- Life happens. Sick kids happen. Job changes happen. Just do what you can do. If you don’t write 50,000 words, you’ll at least have more words than if you didn’t try at all.
- Failing can be the best teacher. My challenges with my last attempt drove me to do better this time by learning from my shortcomings. You can too!